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I think this show is retarded; but it can just join the club of shows which use exploitation for capitalization. America is amazing in that we can take a discrimated against group of people (homosexuals, especially gay men) and exploit them to make a profitable television show. And all this show does is enforce negative ideas people have about gay men in general. Here is an idea -- why don't they create a new version of Jeopardy, but instead of putting intelligent people on the show, they feature only the mentally challenged and ask them the same questions with the intent of making them look unintelligent. How well would that go over?
They could not have used more stereotypical, affeminate gay men for this show. Don't get me wrong -- I am gay, and while I have 0 problem with affeminate gay men, I don't think this show really gives people the right idea. Generally I do not have gay friends, for the specific reason that their life revolves around their sexual preference (gay bars, gay pride, etc.); with me it is merely another trait of mine and nothing more. I do not go to gay bars, I do not go to Gay Pride, and I do not feel the need to attract all possible attention to the fact that I am gay. But I do have a boyfriend and have been in a happy, monogamous relationship with him for about a year and a half.
This show is disgusting. People who are not educated or informed are easily led to believe that the way these gay men act on the show are how ALL gay men act, when in reality that is so far from the truth. I've watched the show once and only once, so I really was not aware that one of them constantly hit on and made remarks to the straight guy, but that too is ridiculous.
I would say 90% of gay men would NEVER hit on another man if they knew he was straight. Most of them are not stupid and are not going to waste their time on an endeavour which would simply hurt or embarrass them. That and there are plenty of gay men out there. I am not saying there aren't exceptions, but in either case, there is no reason a straight man should be afraid of this happening. Even if it does, simple communication works wonders.
I am all for increased acceptance of homosexuals, but I don't think shows like this are intended or ever will help that cause. I mean, hell, when I tell someone I am gay I really don't want the first coming into their mind about me to be from Queer Eye. I don't talk like a woman, I don't wax my eyebrows, I don't shop at Banana Republic, and I don't make suggestive homoerotic comments for shock value. Some gay men do, and if they are happy doing this, then more power to them. But it is NOT fair that this show decided it would forego demonstrating the existence of "normal" gay men in favor of putting the four gayest men possible on the air to make the show more marketable.
And as for the name calling on here -- how sad. You would think this country would learn after everything the African American race went through that discrimination and hatred based upon unalterable personal traits is extremely backward thinking. Yet we still have people on here with nothing better to do than say "a fag is a fag is a fag is a fag." Anyone like that is and will continue to be nothing but a detriment to our society.
I understand that some people were raised with the idea that homosexuality was evil or wrong -- for whatever reason. But at some point in your life you need to start thinking on your own, looking at the facts, and realize that there is little room or use in this world for people who still think like this. People do NOT choose to be homosexual -- just as people do NOT choose to be heterosexual. And to me, at this point, acceptance is not even the immediate goal, but simply tolerance. You do not have to approve or like their lifestyle, but you need to respect it and understand that homosexuals are really not all that different than heterosexuals.
Our society has a lot of growing up to do -- I am thankful that THIS generation is one of the first where I feel a majority of people are more accepting and understanding of differences. But, as seen in this post, there are always those people dangling behind on the mental evolutionary path.
Peace & Respect
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