yep.

I think it's that time of year. Just about everyone I know is single again. Including me.

This should be in the PLUR forum.

eh we should split it so we can post the good parts in PLUR and the bad in Flame.

Hahahaha, I'm about 5 months single, almost 1 month in my new apartment ALONE. I can think of about 5 things to flame and 328947329847329874 things to plur. I'm probably destined to be a bachelorette for life. *nods*

woot for the bachelor/bachelorette 4 life crew!

Weren't you "engaged"?

Yep.. But I wont even go into all the retarded shit that has happened. And to think.. I actually treated this one good. I dunno, I miss her a lot and it really sucks. When the hell does the hurting stop exactly? Anyone?

you're divorced?

Oh yeah get this... and she got all of her Christmas gift's too! I had bought all of them and they were all at her house.. lammeeeee lol

Sorry, it's been hard for me to remember that congratulations are not always in order after a breakup....

Sometimes it stops hurting before it's even over, and sometimes it feels like the hurt will last for eternity. I think it's okay to let the hurt take over your life for a couple to a few months, but then it's really up to you to decide that you're tired of hurting and work towards healing & happy again. Some people let that shit eat away at them for years, and it will completely destroy you.

Good friends help to ease the pain. <3

Yeah...Been looking for a few good friends.... Once finals are over I think I will actually be able to hang out with a few of them lol. That would be neat :P

um yeah come on now dirk keep up.

The paperwork isn't done yet but it will be filed in January, which in Texas means it will be legal in March but yeah we're done.

I remember you telling me this last night man. Yah I know man it sucks. I've been single for quite a while already but you already know that. Just hang in there man, you'll make it. I'll take a shot for you tonight.

single ftw. bitches ain't shit.

*points at Vanessa's sig*

I know I'll make it.. it's just really dumb because of the whole long back story that goes along with it. HOPEFULLY one day... I can move this thread to the PLUR section lol.. until then

It's ok Andrew, I can tell you my sob story if you really want to feel better about your situation. Trust me, Shakespear didn't even write tragitys on this level.

but yeah you'll make it dude. Best of luck.

I'm going to Austin to buy Andrew a lapdance.

Me too, but I'm pretty good at being one so I don't mind it at all.

Honestly, when you can occupy yourself with thoughts other than her. Getting a piece of strange helps but two is better.

sleep with all of her friends... that will make you feel better.

It's funny, cause we have the same friends.. but as soon as she left and started acting weird... her friends all removed me from their friend list on myspace and crap.. which I find kind weird too.

NOT TO MENTION, I have court in January which could determine the rest of my life and I'm trying to have all my friends come as character witnesses, and now my ex gf isn't even coming (which I don't get, cause she says she still loves me.. but now she isn't going to be there for me and it could be the last time anyone ever see's me for like 5 years..) >=/

Rik stylz is my best friend and I have met you several times through him. Not sure if you know or remember me but I'm comfortable in telling you that if your girl is refusing to stick to her commitment which where she plays a huge role that will determine your life you are better off. Melissa and I had a vicious break-up where a lot of hateful words were exchanged but I would still be there for her if she needed me no matter what sacrafice or past relations I had to endure. If she's not going to step up, bro, you might want to start thinking you're better off without her.