Izu wrote:
Urges are uncontrollable if one is a teenager who doesn't know any better. Sexual education is more set on preaching abstinence than safe sex and using contraceptives thanks to Christian fundamentalists. Very young girls in poverty are having babies not because they are sluts or are irresponsible, but because they are misinformed within the educational system and because the availability of contraceptives are restricted to minors, unless parents are notified; but that depends on the state.
you're telling me that they don't teach that sex makes babies? wow.
seriously, you're terribly misinformed. sex ed classes teach all about contraceptives, how effective each method is, and also that abstinence is the only 100% effective method (which happens to be true). and because of that, it's the dirty christian's fault as to why people have illegitimate children? i've got to say, your logic is absolutely astounding.
i grew up around a lot of christians who took all sorts of special abstinence classes... and let me tell you, it wasn't them that were having abortions and getting preggers. it was the sluts. the irresponsible sluts. and it ain't christianity's fault these idiots acted like they had no idea that sex makes babies.
additionally, your information on adoption is totally wack. i personally know couples who have been waiting to adopt for months who would give a child or two a perfectly loving household to grow up in. shit, two of my best friends were adopted and they had more shit growing up than most people.
Abstinence-only programs have recieved millions of dollars in federal funding. Bush is a supporter of abstinence-only programs. I would consider him to be a christian fundamentalist. There is a difference between a christian and their radical counterparts.
Abstinence only works 100% if people don't have sex. Good luck with that. It's ridiculous that it's even taught, same as it's ridiculous 'Just say no to drugs' is taught. People aren't going to just say no. Kids should learn how to handle the situation safely so they don't overdose on drugs or get knocked up. I just think too much emphasis is placed on chastity. A method that obviously doesn't work. Kids are still having as much sex as they did in the 50s.
And I was misinformed about the adoption issue. Giving a newborn up for adoption is ok because couples very rarely want to adopt a child that is over 3 years old. The older children are among the thousands that age out of the foster care system, not the newborns.