I know how you feel man.

I bet this girl 20 dollars on time that I could have her stay the night at my house three seperate times and no have sex with her. The morning of the second night she tells me bets off because next time she sees me she will be on her period.. Thats bullshit man..

Me and you .. we need to stick together.

About your problem .. did you end up kissing or touching her or did you stop her in her tracks?

we need to stick together? lol i dont play like that


and nah i pretty much stopped her in her tracks. Thats what gets me, the whole nite, i didnt make any attempts to ummm have any physical contact.

I'd tell her Im flattered, attracted to you but am currently in a relationship.

If she already knows you are in a relationship than I'd stay clear of this girl (as for getting involved) because that shows signs that she's willing or capable to cheat on her partner.

Or you could fuck her in the ass and not tell anyone.. teehee.

lol, right

nah thats the thing, im not in a relationship. Sure ive dated and still dating this one gurl forever, but progress has stopped long ago. I guess thats one reason i went out with this one. I dunno, i think thats one mistake i do is getting involved with someone before we are even 'friends'.

Well now Im confused.. You are not in a relationship ... you find this girl attractive.. You invite her for drinks, pool and smokage .. she puts a move on you and you stop her..

Im lost..

sounds like a classic case of a gal who says one thing, and acts another.

very common.

steer clear. the disparity between words and actions indicates dishonesty or insecurity. it's not worth your trouble.

After a lengthy AIM convo I understand.. yes .. I understand..

I dont agree.. but I understand..

p.s. I understand.

^^^lol again, the point was to try to BE FRIENDS with an attractive gurl, that is all. Got it

Like I said.. IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!

First, Phuk you for having to turn them away and complaining. I would love to have that problem right now. That is like having two kinds of dank and complaining cuz the one is so sticky, but you only have papes for one torpedo. Just roll both of em up in a big hog leg and enjoy the high. Unless the second bud is laced with embalming fluid.

I do agree that being frynds with a hot one is next is impossible. She's all "why don't you want me, I'm hot" or you wanna hit it and then be friends and she don't like that. Or some crap.

yup. definitly impossible to be friends with a girl your attracted to. just doesnt work on a number of levels.



that's a problem? lol

a stunning moment of clarity from john!!! BRAVO!!!

It doesn't count if you just stick the tip in.

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!



Straight up funny shit!!!! Words to live by even!

Damn Players!
I spit on your ancestors' haircuts!

Being a female that has been led on in the past........Just be freakin honest & upfront from the beginning. Your obviously hangin out w/ an attractive person to get to know them or to test the waters......but be smart & be considerate........let the other person know that your finicky & not relationship material---that way the person will get involved @ their own discretion.

^^yah sorry i deleted muh thread...it was more alil venting post. Im good now

it's not hard at all.


try being bisexual and hanging out with numerous ridiculously hot people as close friends. understand where in the level of life the relationship between the two of you are, and it's no problem.


however, when people try to "jump ladders" (if you've seen it you'll know where i get that from), difficulties can arise. this happens to me a good bit when people i assume are straight put the move on me when i'm hammered.

in any case, if you can understand the full depth of your willpower, and/or have tested its limits, you will find no issue with maintaining a friendship.

ladder theory > all.

Oh Josh, I had fun with you and yo roomies the other night!

me too